Through the servant leadership program, I had the opportunity to stay with a very lovely host family in Oregon on July 20, 2014. Upon our arrival at the sisters church, we were greeted with a delightful surprise. Dinner was already prepared, and each table had name cards displaying the host family’s names and the students assigned to them. It was here that Kariam and I were introduced to our new host family in Oregon, the wonderful Mr. Mark Tyler and Ms. Karen Tyler.
We accompanied the Tylers to their home, where their hospitality instantly made us feel at ease. They had a charming dog named Princess Juniper Rosie. Although I was initially afraid of Rosie, the Tylers’ gentle reassurance helped me overcome my fear. They gave us a thorough tour of their house, making sure we knew we could make ourselves at home. Later, we enjoyed a cozy cup of tea together, sharing stories about our lives. They provided us with a separate room, complete with all the necessary amenities, ensuring our comfort.
The next morning, we had more time to converse over a delicious breakfast before they drove us to the church. That evening, they served us a mouth-watering chicken dinner, which reminded us of our own Afghan cuisine. This warm hospitality and delicious meals continued throughout our stay. One memorable morning, we even had the chance to enjoy breakfast outside, a novel and delightful experience for us.
The Tylers treated us with the utmost kindness and respect, making us feel like cherished members of their family. Our conversations covered a wide range of topics, and we found them deeply engaging. Mr. Mark Tyler, a man of great integrity, had an impressive collection of books. He often read by candlelight, adding to his intellectual charm. He also showed us his stunning classic car, a testament to his passion for vintage automobiles.
Ms. Karen Tyler was incredibly kind and thoughtful. She cooked for us, washed my clothes, and drove us to the church. We had many enlightening discussions about our respective cultures, and she showed a genuine interest in learning more. She actively listened and made us feel valued and respected.
One particularly enjoyable day, the Tylers drove us to the Dee Wright Observatory. The visit was a highlight of our trip, offering breathtaking views and fascinating insights into the area’s natural beauty. It was an experience we will never forget.
Our co-serve program concluded in Oregon on the morning of July 26th. Ms. Karen drove us to the church and, in a heartfelt moment, hugged me like a mother. She told me how much she enjoyed our time together, and I expressed my sincere appreciation for her delicious food and generous hospitality, making me feel as though I was in my own home.
As I reflect on my time with the Tylers in Oregon, I am filled with gratitude and emotion. Their warmth, kindness, and genuine care made me feel like part of their family. The memories we created, the conversations we shared, and the bonds we formed will always hold a special place in my heart. I now have a new family in Oregon, one that I cherish as much as my own, and I am confident that this beautiful relationship will continue to grow and flourish in the years to come.